Originally Posted By: lifejustgothard2
Thanks Mach1. I agree I do focus on H too much. I truly am working on it. I feel its hard to be insighful on where I failed though unless I reflect on this stuff. BUt, maybe I need to reflect and then move on. I can't change the past.


That is one of the reasons the resources are so important....

One of the reasons the archives are so important...

Originally Posted By: lifejustgothard2
If he has filed, what do I expect legally? Do they serve me? Call me or mail the papers? Tired of being blindsided.



They will "be in touch" if he has filed...

Normal process means you will be served , possibly by the local Sherriffs dept, or by some henchman, that his lawyers office has hired....

Just remember that you can't spend your time worrying about that right now....You have more important things to do

What about you Life ?

Who were you before you got married ?