Thanks Mach1. I agree I do focus on H too much. I truly am working on it. I feel its hard to be insighful on where I failed though unless I reflect on this stuff. BUt, maybe I need to reflect and then move on. I can't change the past.
If he has filed, what do I expect legally? Do they serve me? Call me or mail the papers? Tired of being blindsided.
Thanks Mach1. I agree I do focus on H too much. I truly am working on it. I feel its hard to be insighful on where I failed though unless I reflect on this stuff. BUt, maybe I need to reflect and then move on. I can't change the past.
That is one of the reasons the resources are so important....
One of the reasons the archives are so important...
Originally Posted By: lifejustgothard2
If he has filed, what do I expect legally? Do they serve me? Call me or mail the papers? Tired of being blindsided.
They will "be in touch" if he has filed...
Normal process means you will be served , possibly by the local Sherriffs dept, or by some henchman, that his lawyers office has hired....
Just remember that you can't spend your time worrying about that right now....You have more important things to do
Thanks Mach1. Seems like every day this sitch is just in my face!!
I am GAL. I have had NC for over 21 days but have lost count cause I am GAL!!
I just wonder when these kids will see their dad. Maybe never.
I have choose not to see a lawyer till he files. Talked to a few on the phone and they said it doesn't matter who files first. So, if he serves me he serves me.
I am just a little tired of being blind sided by H's crap. When do I get to suprise him? Just venting.
Really hard to be in public because some days I wonder is that OW every where I look. So sad.
Yes, definitely things that can change. And, I am working on those should H come back or not.
Working on my GAL all the time. My 180's H won't see cause he is not here and I have NC. Which is okay right now. Keeps me from anymore pain. THe thought of even talking to him right now makes me ill.
