Chances, I read your posts and your H is a textbook example of the unhappy spouse; I won't use the term WAS because you two are still living in the same house. That situation in itself is more difficult because you never really can give each other the space needed for self-improvement(I'm in the same situation, although my W and I sleep in separate bedrooms)
Yes, GAL activities frequently irritate the S. They aren't happy so why do you have the right to be happy? But whatever you do, don't slow down or stop. Let them see just how wonderful life would be without you making them the center of your attention.
Read any threads by those who have been here a while; you'll see their own attitudes change for the better as they GAL and pursue activities they had not pursued before. It is key to your self-esteem, self-respect and sanity.
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS
