Aren't we conditioned to make choices and stick to them?
Even the bad ones Crushed ?
I think that is what we would like to do in most instances, however, what really keeps us locked into living with those poor choices that we make/or have made ?
Is it fear ? A fear of change ? A fear that our lives may become difficult through our correcting those choices ?
As humans, we appear resistant to change, in reality, we are only resistant to change that was not our idea...
I.E. We try the new pizza place that just opened up down the street, and it is better than the place that you have patroned for the past twenty years....and it is closer, and cheaper...
Not much of a choice to change huh ?
THEN , your boss comes in a week later and tells you that you HAVE to wear a chicken suit to work everyday now, to promote his new line of Vodka....: )
They are both changes, but the way we view those changes is so radically different, that we resist what is imposed onto us
The changes in your life that you have been so resistant to, were not of your own doing. It rocked your comfort zone to the max , and fighting it every inch has put an emotional strain on yourself.
Is that from a fear of change ?
What does fear mean to you ?
I think that what Epic is saying is that, when you get to the place where you have confronted fear, and stared it down from every corner, that embracing change , is a very healthy way to live your life for you....
Crushed, nobody knows what the future holds for any of us.
Never and Always are the words that make us hypocrites.
You can be done today, and not tomorrow.
Nothing is impossible...
Everything is acheivable...
It is about what you strive for and embrace when it comes your way....
Originally Posted By: country
If you ever want to make your way over to the 'Newcomers' section, there are many who could use this type of advice.
I think so too Country....IF I am correct though, the rules change when he posts....
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