At the beginning of my journey

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Just Bombed, this is of course only my opinion, but if your H is fooling around with hookers, I think it's time to show him the door.

To preserve your own sanity, though, you should stop snooping, reading texts, etc. Take it from me (and anyone else who is here) - snooping only leads to more pain for you. You already know the extent of his activities. Reading more evidence (unless you are preparing legal action against him) will do nothing to help your situation.

My heart goes out to you.