Harrier, glad you two could discuss it. I agree that after two sessions it would be hard for an IC to really understand the situation entirely. Heck, we're in them and don't totally understand them.
What your W said:
"Well, we don't really know what's going to happen......I mean I hope we can use this to build a better marriage, but no one knows."
Well, it sort of seems like she is sitting on the sidelines, watching the big game, instead of playing in it. My question would be: what do you WANT to happen? I'm sure you had the same question. A lot of this seems to be waiting, waiting, waiting for our spouses to get to a place where they recommit to the R.
