Originally Posted By: DelinquentGurl
As hard as it is, don't ask him things like that.
I know he's being honest, but his honesty isn't exactly helping, is it?


I agree with DG, ask him nothing, esp q which could hurt you more.

Also as said, when he does go, whilst will be hard and you will miss him, look at it as a chance to build and better YOU.

Also RE your boundry about talking to OW should be to do it, if he has to, too do it not around you IMHO.

Keep going, your doing great

Me - 37
W - 38
D - 14
S - 12
Together - 16
Married - 12
Bomb - April 13, 2011
W moved out - May 13, 2011

The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more