We relocated to a state that does not recognize common law marriages a few years ago for Ex-P's work. I mentioned at the time that it made me feel vulnerable but was assured we would always be together and I had nothing to worry about, blah, blah, blah.
I have consulted a lawyer to no avail. I'm on my own.
Me: 35 Him: 43 Together: 19 1/2 years 1st Bomb (IDLYAM): March 2011 2nd Bomb (OW): April 2011 He abandons home/bills/everything: May 2011 He's bought a new house for OW: September 2011