Country Song,

We relocated to a state that does not recognize common law marriages a few years ago for Ex-P's work. I mentioned at the time that it made me feel vulnerable but was assured we would always be together and I had nothing to worry about, blah, blah, blah.

I have consulted a lawyer to no avail. I'm on my own.


Me: 35
Him: 43
Together: 19 1/2 years
1st Bomb (IDLYAM): March 2011
2nd Bomb (OW): April 2011
He abandons home/bills/everything: May 2011
He's bought a new house for OW: September 2011