Eric, this was a GREAT post. I don't make it over to MLC a lot, but this is exactly why I browse at times. A lot of wisdom to be had.

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What is "done"? Really what is it? IMO, it is a "label" that really means something different for each person.

For example: Person A may say they are "done" tolerating behavior towards them that is unhealthy.

Person B may say they are "done" and move on BY THEMSELVES in their life.

Person C may say they are "done" and move on with someone else.

Person D may say that they no longer can emotionally allow the MLCer into their space.


This is the exact situation I am in. And I have not used the 'done' word for these exact reasons. While in this context it fits. It is not the word I feel is best used.

Anyways, just wanted to let you know how much I enjoyed reading this.

If you ever want to make your way over to the 'Newcomers' section, there are many who could use this type of advice.

Take care all.


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