mgm - I am going to agree with KD. You may get more responses if you can break it down into smaller, more manageable chunks.
Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
This is a slow process, so things can be worked through a thought at a time... It's called a marathon because most often, the only friend you have at the start is time...
This is true. I didn't believe it at first. My W was on the fast track to D. She was hoping to done in a couple months. 5 months later, I'm still here.
It's kind of like a sinister marathon. One without mile markers, course map, and with multiple finish lines.
I read through your situation. One positive I've noticed is she is noticing your changes. I think it's OK for her to be frustrated by them. There's also the possibility she hasn't had enough time to trust them yet.
I know early on in my situation, I would pray for and with my W as well. I am still not sure how receptive she really was to it. I think there was a mixture of appreciation, conviction, and resentment. I saw the comment from dbmod, and you may want to be a little careful that she doesn't feel pressure from you pushing your faith on her.
