Okay, you are right Country Song. It wasn't that terrible. I didn't curse him or act spiteful or raise my voice, but where was the unconditional love? Maybe its running out?

On the bright side, I could just say that it's another 180. After all, loving this man without conditions for 20 years led up to THIS - his abandonment.

Me: 35
Him: 43
Together: 19 1/2 years
1st Bomb (IDLYAM): March 2011
2nd Bomb (OW): April 2011
He abandons home/bills/everything: May 2011
He's bought a new house for OW: September 2011