You know, she could of thought, "they will never come, so I will invite them to show how comfortable I am with my decision."
My guess is she thinks that everyone has bought her POV of our situation. She has told herself enough times that I was an absent husband/father that she believes it. Her perception is the truth despite what anyone else says.
She doesn't realize that I am working extra hard to build my case to prove all of her claims about me are untruthful. I have asked my L to get this mess out of the mud and to focus completely on me as a father and the well being of our kids. The truth.
I have people spanning our entire relationship that are writing statements and/or willing to testify on my behalf. From our kids pediatrician to our Pastor, our S5 t-ball coach, all of my supervisors…..the list goes on. I’m trying to cover all of my bases.
When the pediatrician called me and I told him my X and I are getting a divorce, he was shocked. When I went on to tell him that she call me an absent father, this was his response…..”What? You would be the last person that I would call an absent father. You were in here as much as she was, if not more. We would be willing to pull the records.”
I asked him if he could write a statement letter just simply stating the facts. He said absolutely. Obviously there was more to the convo, but that is a huge catch for me.
My X has until Friday to file all of her supporting documents and as far as I can gather, she isn’t going to be filing anything. I have until next Wednesday to file mine, so being the respondent does have its benefits.
I realize that I am not doing much DB’ing, so I hope what I am posting is helpful to others. I’m going to continue at least journaling, so I have another place to reference.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
