The snooping isn't going to serve any purpose except twist you up further. You already know the worst, so its basically masochistic if you keep doing it.
Can you save your marriage?
Short answer? Yes.
Get Divorce Remedy and read it.
Fireproof?
The movie, not something I'd recommend watching with the wife.
It's touching and sweet and if your life WAS a movie, it might work.
Basically, you have seen her react positively toward you, what were you doing when those things happened?
Patterns, find patterns between your actions and her reactions.
I HOPE more people start dropping by, as for moderation...
DB can you unmod him?
Click notify and ask her. : )
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
