You can't be expected to be ok all the time. Of course things he does will trigger you - don't beat yourself up.

Personally, I agree with the "Nothing to do with X until OW is out of the picture". How can you be civil, carry on pleasant conversation, when you know that he's going to hang up the phone and call her? I can't, and I don't see how you could either.


H: 39, Me: 37
SD: 18, S: 7
M: 9, T: 10
"I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11
Discovered online affair - 7/11