Hello everyone.. I am very new here...my wife left me June 5th.....while I was out of town....upon my return to my home.....half the stuff was gone....while reading the dear John letter....there was a knock at the door....and yes you are right I was served D papers and an Order of protection for violence....... Here's the thing....I never saw it coming and I have never been violent in my life. Everyone is floored...including her own family.....I have not talked to her in 5weeks due to the protection and my lawyers advice....the pain is so great I have to remind myself to breath.... I have seached the net and have not come across this situation....I can't be the only one. She never told her best friend or only sister......her mother which I talked to today for the first time in since the bomb was clueless other than she knew she moved out. She has completely left all our friends.....no one has heard from her and she has not return V-mail from the either.
What do I do? I got a lawyer three weeks ago....he said ....dude it's over. I can't except this after 9 years of M.....I have tried to get messages to her....but no reply. I have since given up on advice from everyone around me......
The dear John letter stated that she did not want to be married anymore and that she was not happy and has not been happy for a long time. And she was glad her only child was now on his own. She never said anything about love in the letter.
Please help me through this!! What happened. I actually thought things were going well in the marriage ....
How can I get her back if I can't talk with her?
I don't cheat, gamble, use drugs, I clean, shop and take care of the house all the time and I was happy to do it too. WHAT HAPPENED
