jbnati- Your'right, the purpose of the letter was to just clear the air. We have not spoken about anything other than bills and money for 2 months. It was almost as if I had written the email to myself. I wanted to own up to the things that I had done that contributed to the disintegration of our marriage, and I sure did not take the blame for everything. I kept it very neutral. I had to say it to myself and see it in writing. It was cathartic for me. I don't intend to follow up. I just put it out there. Being dark wasn't working, although it was giving me relief from the drama. I decided to try something different and see what would work and I did it for me. Thanks for the reply.
Me:61 W:60 M: 26 No kids ILYBININLWY AUG 10 S: 5/20/11 D filed 6/23/2011