THE SHOW MUST GO ON

[TRUSTING]

I have not posted for a while. I am just sitting back watching my ex's MLC go on and on and on and on.

Things have changed. It is clear replay is dwindling. His spinning is not as intense. He sold his Jaquar convertible, motorcycle, and boat several months ago.

He has not married OW. She is still living with him.

The spewing has stopped. He is clearly avoiding me, friends, and family.

He seems for the first time shameful and embarrassed about what he has done.

In January, he did ask for my forgiveness but it was clear he had a lot of baking to do yet.

Last weekend my father ran in to him at a Menards Store. He was friendly and told my father he wishes "things could go back to the way they use to be". He told him that he misses him and was actually thinking about inviting him to his home. My father found that statement odd since OW still lives there.
So he is still somewhat not thinking clearly.

Daughter reports there is a lot of "drama" over at dad's house with OW. I don't ask for details, I just listen.

Ex appears to be better with his finances and has not taken a trip for a while, which is very rare. Since the bomb, he has taken over 40 major vacations. He has been a runner, runner..