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#2169372 07/19/11 06:56 PM
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There's just a little old fashioned karma coming down
Just a little old fashioned justice going round
A little bit of sowing and a little bit of reaping
A little bit of laughing and a little bit of weeping
Just a little old fashioned karma coming down

Coming down, coming down
Just a little old fashioned karma coming down
It really ain't hard to understand
If you're gonna dance you gotta pay the band
It's just a little old fashioned karma coming down

There's just a little old fashioned karma coming down
Just a little old fashioned justice going round
A little bit of sowing and a little bit of reaping
A little bit of laughing and a little bit of weeping
Just a little old fashioned karma coming down

Coming down, coming down
Just a little old fashioned karma coming down
It really ain't hard to understand
If you're gonna dance you gotta pay the band
It's just a little old fashioned karma coming down
It's just a little old fashioned karma coming down


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Old thread locked.

Not much to say, but I like to have a place if needed.

One thing did happen this morning.

I dropped D off with W this morning. D freaked! She didn't want to let go of me, and didn't want to go to W. She balled as W carried her to her car.

It was tough. Before I handed her to W I gave her a big kiss and said "see you tomorrow."

As W was walking away, I said again "I will see you tomorrow sweetie. I am sorry"

Boy, it kind of choked me up. On the flip side, and call me the devil, there is some sweetness to it as well. I hate to see D sad, but it also gives W a little dose of reality. And I just love what a little daddy's girl she is.

This is the first time D has reacted this way. As she gets older and more aware of the situation, it could happen more.

So then, 5 minutes or so after we parted ways, I get a text from W, with a picture of D and "she's happy now!"

No response from me.

This week is the good stretch with D for me. Had her last night, have her Wed night, then I have her Fri-Sun. So it is a stretch where I have D 5 of the 7 nights. Love it. Going to have a nice family weekend at my parents house.

Peace all.


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Karma is a great way of suffering through the craptastic and enjoying the suffering of others.

Not too many people think their karma burn is deserved, though.

Careful with karma it's a 3 blades sword that cuts both ways.



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I hear you loud and clear Jack.

Oh, I know far too well that the blade cuts both ways. I have been cut, and deservedly so.

I know my post came off as somewhat spiteful.

TBH, it is an emotion I am fighting a bit.


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Be spiteful here. : )

You know just be perapred for everyone to tell you how you shouldn't be, cause that's not the way of the better person. ; )

A vent is a vent and it needs to come out.

The real victory comes when you're feeling spiteful, but do not act upon it.



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Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
Be spiteful here. : )

You know just be perapred for everyone to tell you how you shouldn't be, cause that's not the way of the better person. ; )

A vent is a vent and it needs to come out.

Love it Jack.

Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
The real victory comes when you're feeling spiteful, but do not act upon it.


So far so good.


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It does break your heart when you have to hand over your child and they are throwing a fit because they don't want to go.
I always hated that.

Vent away CS-that's what this place is for.


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I could use a little Karma today. But I was also spiteful today.

All in all, a very relevant thread full of impossible contradictions. Such is life and DBing!


Me: 35
Him: 43
Together: 19 1/2 years
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All in all, a very relevant thread full of impossible contradictions. Such is life and DBing!


LOL, so true. smile


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My D (also 2) just tried to push my head down on BF's leg (so we'd snuggle - which hasn't happened in gosh knows how long) she was INSISTING while we were reading her books. And he called it out. I moved away. But still....

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