Taurus - You may be looking at a ver small problem as though it's a very large problem. It isn't because it was presented to you incorrectly. It isn't because te way yo discovered the problem was in some way foggy or misleading. Your perception is off most likely because there is a very volatile and emotional situation behind te problem that has distorted it in your eyes. Someone may be trying to make amends, but in the words that person chooses or in the memories the issue brings forth, you are recalling something that upsets you. Step back. Gain some perspective. And then accept the apology that is being offered, even if it isn't direct.
Very timely.
Originally Posted By: mishka422
This past Saturday my landlord came over to have me sign a new lease. Gabe was there when he got there and since he has known us for 10 years he asked, very gently, if we were back together. Gabe was standing right there but didn't answer so I had to. I just said we were working on it and left it at that. It was very uncomfortable feeling.
Later that night I asked Gabe if he was ok with what I had told the landlord and his response was a half-hearted, "Yeah, that was fine. No problem."
No problem? WTF does that mean????
You are looking at this from a negative perspective. You are not even vocalizing the possibility that he was disappointed you didn't just say "yes".
His actions speak much louder than his words.
If you were confident in your relationship with him because of his actions, you would have just busted out with a "yes" and a smile and never even asked him if that was okay right?
Act as if my dear. Focus on the positives. And build on the positives.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
