Then about 20 minutes later I get a phone call from STBX. Apparently his mother is in another city a few hours away, to visit his grandmother, and he wants to switch weekend custody to take our kids for a visit. It's my weekend.
I told him I'd think on it. I felt awash in feelings at that moment ( anger being the initial one of them) so I needed time and didn't just blurt out " hell no."
What would be your motivation for saying no?
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
