It is my theory (and I'm only 1 guy so take it for what it's worth), that the LBS MUST get to the point you just described before they can really detach and therefore have the real possibility of reconciliation
That's 2 guys who feel that way.
Take all the time you need Harrier, even if it only for a few days. Got other lines as well.
Harrier, I am the ever hopeful, I know that, I also know that sometimes its not what is needed or wanted. : )
No matter what happens this isn't going to kill you.
And if it doesn't kill you...
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK