Is filing for D a 180?

[luvmyhubby]

Well he has fully pushed my limits and i have completely lost it. I discovered that he in fact has been seeing someone from the very beginning. Which in itself i could handle well as much as you can handle that.. however he changed his fb status and unfriended me and my friends.

I was humiliated.. he hasnt even filed for a D! Then I discovered that he took the OW around our children. IT wasnt until I layed my cards on the table that he admitted it. He has been lying about everything. and i mean everything..

Ive been so nice and friendly and open and helpful even with him getting the kids.

Im done done done done done done.... We are sitting downt divide up our assetts on paper this morning.

He cried and swore he would never do that to our children again.. I have no more belief or faith in his words at all. I will continue to db for me but i wont be a doormat anymore.

I packed the rest of his clothes up and put them in trashbags at the front door. He can take them all.. I need nothing more of him here i am letting him completely go!

The things he has done to me make me so angry and hurt and the whole time i have been dbing he has taken advantage. Im trying to rise above but right now it is so hard! Now i know why he wanted a D so bad his new OW must be awesome for him.