The difficult part when you are the one left behind, is to NOT become too anticipatory or hopeful. When you are the one hoping to salvage a relationship, every interaction seems SO important.


I would ask her to lunch or dinner. Not to speak of the relationship.


I think you might need to court her again. Not sure why I think that, I just do.


There are things in your relatively young relationship that didn't work well. It would be nice to have a bit of a do over on those things.


Living with parents or not.
Talking about your feelings in a productive way.



Your relationship began in a unique way. You had many obstacles to overcome. To your credit, you did. But clearly not everything went smoothly, and you have paid a price in your relationship with each other.


Think of starting over together.


Woo your wife again.


Take her lunch. Go for a walk together. Enjoy the sights.


But do it without expectations.


Do it because you love her.



See what happens.


Blessings,

Bill

"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."