I don't know who "her" is. Don't remember mentioning a "her" in my response to you.
Look, reading back through your posts, you're a passionate person who takes things quite personally and strongly. I'm not sure what you could have done to family and friends, but given your husbands actions, I can't imagine them not forgiving you.
Your husband sounds like an absolute jerk. I know you love him, but he has treated you like an enemy. He has not been anything close to being a man. My father taught me how to live with honor and integrity - this is not it.
Maybe if you finally kick his butt to the curb, maybe then he'll start to get it.
And if not, quite frankly I think you're better off without him.
Trust me, not all men are cheating, hateful azholes.
Try to temper your dramatic response to everything. IT's not the end of the world. You can and will deal with the mess that the two of you created. And you can and will have an awesome life.
Probably as soon as you get this creep out of yours.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
