Hey SUs... I'm guessing some of the vets will come around who know your story.
I hear you want out and based on what you said about OW having creeped you here, not sure if you are intentionally posting here expecting the OW to find the post and pass it on to your H... but...
One thing at a time.... "fixing" will come with time, what is the primary goal?
You want out, so are you planning on filing? Then what?
