I am hardly a newcomer yet I felt this was the best place for me to get the most responses. I will try to keep this brief.

Over the past 2 years I have been humiliated and drug through the mud. Some of it is my fault for not having the strength to leave and part of it was hearing the words my spouse uttered giving me hope.

In the past few months my husband quit his job leaving us with nothing. He still lives in our home but I finally had the courage to leave after being left for the millionth time.