Mish, the book is based on the fact that guys tend to have real difficulty with the "R talk" so there are ways to deal with him that can get past that. Guys sweat bullets when the R talk is brought up because it normally means we're in deep doo doo. Let's face it, nobody ever wants to have the R talk to tell you how loved you make them feel! I read the book a while back and quite liked it. You can probably reserve it at the library. It's worth a shot.
