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I told her im getting tired of being plan B


9, do you know HOW ridiculous this sounds right now? How long has it been since the "big change?" What was your expectation on timeline here?

Jesus man, you need to redefine your definition of patience.

And come on, OW should not even be a thought right now. End it. Hard and clean.

You are in no position to try and juggle that. Sounds like you have enough going on already.

Did you read Jacks post on how hard piecing is?

And it hasn't even really started yet?

IF you want this. Step WAY back. Fix your expectations. Your timeline.

Can you handle just being a friend for a while? Can you give BOTH of you some time to heal and get to a spot to move forward?

BITS

Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.