Tad, Tad, Tad,

Dude.........

I know you are hurting......

You gotta stop this.....

MLC or NOT......does not matter

(FTR your wife is the poster child for MLC)

your actions, your approach should be the same......

DO NOT INTERACT WITH HER AT ALL.

I mean really your youngest is 16..........

why do you even need to talk to her......

I hate to compare sitches but I never talk to my XW and if I do communicate it is through email and my kids are 11 and 14.

She is going to blame anyone and everyone for what SHE has decided to do, and it is going to take a long time for that to change if ever.

She is in a shooting gallery and you are the easiest target for her to hit...........have you figured that out yet?

Stop exposing yourself to her......

She has a pellet gun and she is nailing your a$$ everytime you guys interact..........does it hurt?????

IF not keep up what your doing.....

If it does hurt then do something different.

Let me help you refocus.........

What day of the week is it???

What are you doing in 3 days???

I know what I'm doing......how bout you????

Of all the sh!t you are dealing with.........that is an easy one to do.

I am into easy dude.........you need to focus on something else.

Hope this helps......

Cheers

Formerly "missherlove"

Me49 XW49
M17 T19
S16 D20

Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.

~Jim Morrison