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OK; just my opinion.


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and i value your opinion Starsky, has kept me on my toes numerous times!

Just an update, W has come home, was a little weird, she was very emotional around the kids.

She came to me and said she was sorry for all of this, that she will get better, she just needs to work through her emotions. At this point, i asked her if she would like to go away for the week. She asked me where we were going. I told her that she should go to my families cottage up on lake erie, I would drive her there and she could spend the week by herself to work through some of the emotional issues on her own and not in front of the kids.

She agreed and i drove her the 5 hours and dropped her off. I will be going to pick her up on the weekend, but i will not be in a rush to come home. My parents are taking the little 2 and the oldest 2 are at their fathers all next week. I am hoping that my wife and i can spend a couple days together just being ourselves. Go out on the four wheelers and maybe do some fishing, spend a few hours on the trails just enjoying nature.

Some of the things we did in the past that we both loved to do. I dont want to talk about our relationship, just kinda spend some time and get back to the root of our relationship.

So thats my plan, what does everyone think?


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10 hours round trip?? Why couldn't she drive herself?

I think you're still trying to "fix" and rescue her. This placating behavior doesn't work, in my opinion.


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)
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