Originally Posted By: AloneAt35
JackThreeBeans,

Why did I say I wasn't mad? Because I just didn't know what to say. I could have told him that I was furious and sickened by him at that moment but what would it had accomplished? Perhaps a big scene that seemed fruitless at that point.



35,

There are a WHOLE HOST of responses in between "I'm OK with you flaunting your affair in front of my face" and "big scene."

Some that come to mind:

"Yes, I'm angry. Flaunting your affair in front of me when we're still married is INCREDIBLY direspectful."

or

"Actually, I'm more disgusted than angry."

or

Just stare at him blankly, shake your head in disgust, and say "Wow." and/or "Unbelievable."


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)