I have a feeling that something big is about to happen. I could be totally off base and won't be disappointed if I'm wrong, but I got this feeling just before W asked me to not D and try counseling, so....

Couple of reasons:

(1) Nice TM exchange documented above, but after I told W how much I appreciated her checking in, she replied about how small things mean a lot coming from the right person. I totally agreed. Conversation just had a good vibe to it.

(2) I picked up the kids today as I always do on Mondays and took them home. As usual, I didn't plan to stay long. When I told kids to give me hugs and kisses, D6 said "I don't want you to go". W quickly said "I don't mind if you stay a while, if you have no plans". I replied, "I do, but this is a way better offer and those can wait". I stayed and played with the kids for a while. While playing D6 said (within ear shot of W) "Daddy, I want you to live here again". Wow. I kept it together and just said "Well, don't you have fun at my place". She said "yes, but I want you to come back here". I just said "I know, honey" and changed the subject. I'm about 90% sure that W overheard that -- and there's no way it didn't affect her. If it didn't then she really isn't human any more.

(3) I called kids at bedtime. Nice chat. Talked to W at the end. As we wrapped up, I said "I know you can't say it right now [editor note: kids where right there and she's not saying it in front of them for now], but I love you lady". We hung up and no more then 3 seconds went by before I got a TM saying "ILY2". She was off the hook, I gave her an out and she stepped up anyway.


Maybe those are just nice things, but my spiddy sense if tingling. Last time it tingled something happened. We'll see, but I wouldn't hate to be right on this!


M: 39 W: 37
Married: 9
D5; S3
"It's Over" 09/26/10
11 Day Sep 10/10
Piecing Starts 11/4/10
Piecing Fails 4/11
I move out 5/11
Hire Lawyer 6/11 - Stall 6/22/11
Piecing #2 - 6/22/11
Home 10/11