Divorce on the horizon?

[tadpole1025]

Thanks Eric. Appreciate everything.

I do not give a rats as* about your W right now (and no I am not insensitive). I really care about you and your emotional health.

I know buddy. I just wanted to give everyone an update on how it went today. Plus, I like to come on here and just write my feelings and thoughts down.

Only you can tell if she is in a crisis. Personally, based on what you have posted I think she is.

I do too. She swears up and down that she isn't.

Can a sane person understand some one that is crazy? Why are you trying to understand what she feels right now? What do you hope to accomplish knowing? Stop looking at her!

Man, I wish it was that easy.

Why did she make this statement? Did you ask? What does knowing do for you? Do you think it helps? Do you think it will make you feel better. Yeah I get the….”I need to know” feeling. Guess what it does nothing but hurt you. Question….do you think know WILL HELP BOTH of YOU should either of you try to reconcile? For me, I am sure it would not help knowing the details…at least not NOW.

I did ask and I know I shouldn't have. She says it is none of my business. Maybe it is. Maybe it isn't. You're right. Doesn't help a thing.

Funny I read this quote and I remember hearing something similar. At the time I looked at is as a negative….now…what I can tell you is this…..WHY would she make this comment IF SHE DID NOT SEE CHANGES? The fact that she may see changes is a positive. It may not save your M but it is still a positive.

True statement my friend.

Hmmm…can you see what she is saying with this quote? Can you be her friend….the type of friend to respect HER CHOICES?

I can, but it hurts when her choices don't include me. She went ice cold overnight. I thought everything was fine.

A couple of other quotes from her today:

"You changed your relationship status on FB to seperated so the whole world can see."

"You're just fighting for custody to beat me. It's like you are trying to "win" something. It's all about winning. I get sh!t on because you'll get everything."

Whatever.

Thanks for the input.

Tad