I can tell you that everything your P said is pure script. We've all heard some version of the things he said to you, if not almost verbatim.
Those things are said to justify what they've done or are doing.
The saying around here is to believe none of what they say, and only 50% of what they do. There's a reason that phrase was coined, it's because it's common for all WAWs to give the LBS some version of the same 'speech'.
My H, and I, had the same type of R that you and your P had in that we seldom argued. We got along very well. H and his ow argue a lot. IDK, maybe he's addicted to the drama now. It was the last thing he wanted in his life pre MLC or at least that was what he always said.
It's very common around here to hear the LBS say they don't know the person who now inhabits our WAWs mind and body.
