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sensei


I get enough Yoda thrown my way. Please don't add to it. : )

OK, so the coldness IS getting a response, as opposed to NO response.

Now are YOU ok with the change, the 180 can you handle it? If YOU cannot, then try another way. You need to figure it out.

If you would have talk for 20-30 minutes, instead just tell him and leave it alone? Not open for debate, just a flat out.

"Are you angry with me?"
"Yes."
"Why?"
"You're here with me, in our house, talking with her, in front of me. I'm going to be upset, snookums."


Maybe leave the snookums part out.

and I am not telling you what to say...just offering a possible 'change'


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Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

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