I also noticed that she sent some minor flirtatious messages to another guy. It just said "How are you doing good looking." Granted, he does not live in the country, but still, it bothers me. Is this how she will act with all guys now?
To be very frank, I think she will be go wild. For one thing, she will feel drunk with her new "freedom". When she was having an EA with the security guard, she discovered the thrill that came from flirting. I don't think she'll settle for one man, not yet anyway. The security guard was just a "try-out". She may let him tag alone, but she's going to play hard and get all she thinks she's been missing.
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I am curious to see how fast though.
This will eat you up if you don't stop watching her and reading FB. You are not just curious, but you are very jealous. That's normal, but jealousy has to feed off of something. Don't feed it by trying to keep track of her activities.
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Hopefully the rest of her list will follow.
What is your planb for your life? Are you going to just sit there and see if she comes back some year?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!