Thanks for your insight. If that's the case, I don't know how he sleeps at night. I wish I knew for sure, I'd feel so much better actually knowing why he left - it would be a lot easier to endure knowing he had met someone than just being told that he had lost his feelings for me.
I have little love notes he hid around the house when he went out of town for work a few months before he ended things...that is why it was so hard for me to understand it when he said, "I can't remember the last time I really felt love for you..." I felt like screaming, "I DON'T KNOW, but I can tell you that it wasn't THAT long ago!"
I'm sorry it happened to you too.
Me: 35 Him: 43 Together: 19 1/2 years 1st Bomb (IDLYAM): March 2011 2nd Bomb (OW): April 2011 He abandons home/bills/everything: May 2011 He's bought a new house for OW: September 2011