wife moved out with kids 3 months ago. married for 16 years , wife firm on divorce and wont consider counceling. I was a very neglectfull husband and father for many years and changed to late. my wife and I have had a very strained relationship due to custody battles and finance issues,all that has settled down for now. we are to a point where we are emailing 5 times a day and she even called me on the phone today. all talk is only concerning the kids with some joking around. I feel like something drastic must happen to change her mind. whats my next move?
