As for OW being his affair partner, he claims it isn't so. He claims he met her on a dating site a few days after he told me it was over between us, so the official story is that he wasn't cheating and she isn't an 'affair partner'...
Sweetie, this is a lie he's telling himself so he doesn't feel like the swine that he is.
My H tried the same thing - "I didn't consider it an affair because our relationship was over - I was just moving on to my next relationship."
It's amazing how many lies they will tell, to themselves, to us .. to feel better about something so horrible.
H: 39, Me: 37 SD: 18, S: 7 M: 9, T: 10 "I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11 Discovered online affair - 7/11
