How painful! But honestly... you did handle yourself VERY well. He just put himself in an impossible situation. It will never work. I wouldn't blame you in the least if you were ready to wash your hands of him at this point. But I'm putting my bets on him coming back. You've been his friend and support. He's going to turn to you. Now focus on YOU. PMA, GAL. If he's going to look back down the road, what will he see? try not to let thoughts gravitate to him and ow. But at least you know they are not a happy loving couple. She's going to torture him. He's going to get just what he deserves! And no matter what relationship he finds himself in, it will never work until he's ready to look at his issues. Great spiritual growth and awareness takes place in times of pain. If nothing else you can take away a greater wisdom and understanding. Hugs.