J3B's, You go Man!!! Yeah on the house. I believe every thing happens for a reason (and on Our Higher Powers time clock - not our Own).
You have given myself and so many others here on these boards great wisdom. I do believe that you were one of the first people that I read a post from about 3 years ago that said, you simply would not let all your W's MLC behaviors bug you and eat you alive. I was shocked at first, as I was letting everything my H said and did Really affect me. Now, I feel after a long 4 years I am strong enough to let that crap roll right off my back. Its his issues to deal with and I have my own life to live. I am so happy to have gained that sort of strength from you. And by the way, every time I feel this way - thats when My H starts being more interested in me. It works like a charm for both my self esteem and for gaining that attraction back from my H.
Again, Congrats on the House, Bless you both for coming so far!!! TIPPER
