No, I'm not recommending exposure, LJG2H. I'm saying that it's easier to DB when there's no OP in the picture, and that while you can't FORCE someone to end an affair, there are ways to combat it and put boundaries in place. MHL does an excellent job at giving just one example, above.

Hope that clarifies.


Starsky


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)