Can we talk about how "to prime the pump"? Or, did I miss it in the thread here?
No, I just introduced that phrase, as a way to describe my thoughts about doing almost whatever-it-takes to attack infidelity, as a means to take that "high" away from the MLCer as part of what's holding them back from being open to your changes and your love.
It's not really considered part of the DB catechism, though -- just my musings.