No one can tell you when you are done. Only you will know. I have really stopped talking about my H and our sitch because my friends think I should just tell him to get out and one friend wants me to go file for a D. I think too that it is so opposite of how I usually act. I am sure they would have expected me to just push him out the minute he said he was done. He might have expected that as well.
You want to know at the end of the day that you did everything you could do to save your marriage. Take all the time you need. Mort Fortel says to do nothing for a year.
