Reconstructing the LBS

[JustStunned]

TG, as usual you’ve given me more to think about in one post than this old grunts brain housing group can decipher through a single reading. Thanks.

I think the sooner we move to accept what we cannot control or change the sooner we begin to truly heal.

In another thread, 2Step posted despite what some of us write about moving on we still hope to recon. I agree, and this is true in my case.

I still feel love for her.

I cannot dwell on the loss I feel or swell with anger over her abandonment of our relationship and still heal.

I will not be ready for or any good to an intimate trust relationship until I heal. I am not content to slowly allow healing or risk stagnation, so I am here, foreign as it is to my nature, expressing feelings and pain.

I am working through it, learning, and taking advice.