As for the dating profile your H had up, how close were you to the description of what he was looking for in a companion when you met him?
I don't advise snooping either but since you did, you have an idea of what he is looking for. I'm sure there are at least some of those things on his 'list' that you used to be like before life got in the way.
What about getting back to them? More like the girl he married.
You're doing well. Keep doing what's working. Don't over analyze everything as you'll drive yourself insane.
Keeping looking for those ways to GAL. A happy, confident person is very attractive.
