jb, thanks for the encouragement. The running has been good for me physically, mentally and has helped me learn to push myself.
GAL, even if I wanted to respond, I don't know when I'd have time because... (wait for it)... I'm getting a life
I may end up seeing W early this week. SD is leaving Wednesday, so if I see her before that I'd have to pick her up at the house. Other than that, I really do have things going on most of the week. Wednesday and Friday evenings are flexible at this point, but W doesn't need to know.
If she emails or texts about the last tirade, I have no problem letting her know I don't respond to threats. Nicely of course.
I updated my FB status last night (yeah, I know most of you hate FB. Deal:) to say 'It's been a year now and my how my attitude has changed :)' W isn't in my friend list, so it wasn't for her benefit or to rub it in. It was my self-affirmation that I'm doing all right and that I have a PMA about me. And it's good PR.
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011