My choice is to let her do what she is going to do. I am a big believer of controlling what I can control.
I my wife is having an A then she has to deal with that betrayal to her family. I also feel is she is having an A that she will find out she won't get what she wants or the A. She wants a family and security. I am working on me and creating that type of environment at our home. She needs time to see that and feel confident that my changes are legitimate.
I am working on being patient and seeing what time will bring. I am going to stick with Michelle's advice and keep reading and rereading DR and DB.
