Blown Away

You will find differences of opinion on here for what to do if you suspect there is an A.

In all likelyhood it has been my observation where there is smoke there is fire.

Me? I found out conclusively before I ever came here. In fact I had moved out because i found out. I got he typical denial. He is only a friend etc.

So for me I knew.

Was that good or bad? IDK. I proceded to do a lot of the advice that is given here or was given here at the time.

My gut tells me it would be better to know what you are facing in your M.

If I didn't already know I would have wanted to know. You will never get the truth or the whole truth from your spouse about it.

You can also waste a lot of heartache in obsessing on trying to bust her. That is my opinion.

Do what you need to do but don't let fear rule you. If it is happening then you have some choices to make.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am