My last post was on 5/19. We have what I thought was piecing. W moved out I helped her. I basically redid her apartment and we became close. Spent alot of time together and sex was included. about a week ago we had breakfast together and she said that since my father was in hospital she wanted us to continue to be close ,but, since she has pulled away. Today I asked her why she has been so distant in the last 2 weeks and she replied that she had emotional trust issues. That led to a great day and tonite we went out for a drink and she dropped me off at the house we were formerly occuping with 3 kids and she said she was going home to appartment. well....come to find out she was at bar and lied had a prievious affair with FB friend 2 months ago. Spent last night with her and all was well. Or so I thought.Tonight she wasd at bar smoozing with a old work buddy and I am very hurt, someone who I thought I could trust. Is there any validity to " Once a cheater always a cheater" I have been working DB since march . My previous thread is " the end is near" in newcomers. What confuses me is that we have had wonderfull times since the bomb 3/26/11. W was ready to divorce me but after her affair she came around. Why now is she going back to the deception nand the partying after we have come so far????? any help would be appreciated,
